Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Long Time No Post


Well it's been a long time since I last posted. 2010 was a very busy year. My last year of homeschooling and one of the busiest. Partly because of teaching a co-op history class and the usual yearbook which took a lot of time. We also had a graduation ceremony for Lisa and three other graduates. After graduation, I worked more on my Squidoo and made giant squid in Jan. This year has also been an adventure. Dave & I attempted to celebrate 25yrs of marriage with a trip. The first attempt was thwarted by a court hearing from a previous tenant. The second attempt by surgery for my day resulting in 10 days in NV with another trip a month later. This turned out to be a blessing in disguise as we would have ended up in North Caroline the same time as a bunch of Tornadoes. We are still going to try for a trip this year, perhaps Oct. In addition to my Dad's health and adjusting to an almost empty nest, I've been doing a lot of work online. The best place to see all that I've been up to is about.me, click on the links and you'll see all that I've been building. You can also follow my online antics on facebook or twitter

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

2009 Christmas Letter/Post


This year instead of sending out a letter, I thought I'd put it in a post. So here is a combination of the December/Christmas Letter post.

This month Bethany turned 21 and we celebrated by going to a Mediterranean restaurant that she chose. Next month we'll have an open house for her.

I attended my last December teacher's Christmas dinner and we went to a surprise 50th B-day party. We did our annual gingerbread house decorating and had a great time at a Christmas Party with our church friends.



I finished a class/session on the internet making six web pages since the end of October so, on the 22nd I'll get my RocketMoms badge. Two of the pages are in the Nov post, and here are the rest.

http://www.squidoo.com/asus_mini_notebook_eee_pc
http://www.squidoo.com/nativity_manger_scene
http://www.squidoo.com/Toys_to_encourage_creativity
http://www.squidoo.com/Travel_Journal

If your interested in the rest of the year, you can look at the older posts. Here is an index of the 2009 posts.

Jan ~ Gingerbread burning, Monster Truck and shooting in front of our home.
Mar ~ Anniversary, Dance trophy, Play and Clay
April ~ Tabernacle Experience & Bunco
May ~ Yearbook, Ballet & The sign-up form for my monthly newsletter
June ~ Camping, Summer Camp & an ill parent
Aug ~ Mission Trip & RIP
Sept ~ George S Hayne Memorial
Nov ~ Camping, Plane Trip, Wedding/Reunion & 2 web pages I made

Our Christmas letter/post wouldn't be complete without David's contribution, so here it is.



The Child Who Should Be King Over Us All


Living the life of Christian faith here in California is often obscured by a covering of American tradition and custom that can mask the unique person of Jesus, making Him out as someone who is more palatable to the western mind. So many times I find myself behaving as an American rather than as a Christian. A difference that was not so clear to me when I was younger and full of enthusiasm for a certain political party that I hoped would restore us as a Godly nation. Our merry band of "Christian" patriots were going to campaign, vote and eventually right our ship of state back on its "intended" course that was deviated from by those "Liberal" bureaucrats.

But to no avail. Those whom we championed, candidates considered to be "amongst us” turned out to be ill suited for governing. Or maybe they were like us, just naive in believing that simplicity of intent itself would correct the path of our nation and that the "obvious correctness" of our worldview would win out over the challenges of bureaucracy infecting the seats of government.

Our most recent presidents and governors have proven themselves fiscal Liberals - rapidly constructing our nation’s bankruptcy as they turned a blind eye to the professional moneychangers who debased our government to enrich themselves. Now I understand more clearly that no form of human government can derail that which God has set in motion by His providence. Even for us in America, the prophets have circumscribed our course with grave certainty.

Take heart! This Child we celebrate, who came to provide for us our “wedding garment” (Matt 22:11) will come again, will end the corruption of human politics, and will finally rule as The Worthy and Sovereign King.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Fall Events

October has come and gone and no posts. Seems I'm drifting to every other month, instead of monthly. I'll have to work on that. With October, school is in full swing and L~ senior year is a busy one. This month saw another milestone for our family with L~ turning 18, no more minors in this house. She also got her driver's license since my last post. Went to family camp ending with three of us helping out at our churches annual Fall Festival.

This month L~ and I went to Idaho (this was part of her B-day present) for the wedding of a childhood friend.


Another good friend went with us making a reunion of 5 childhood friends and their mothers. We got there on a Thursday, the wedding was on Saturday and the girls went home on Sunday. Sunday afternoon us mom's got together and had our own slumber party/reunion. We were missing the mom who is in heaven, but the time together was sweet just the same. Now it's time to get ready for Thanksgiving, and our annual pilgrimage to Parumph the day after to visit my dad. And we all know what comes after that, getting ready for Christmas. So I'd better get going and get caught up or work ahead or whatever so I'll be ready for the next thing.

PS. I just remembered two other things I've done this month. Made two new Squidoo lenses.


http://www.squidoo.com/ClutterFreeGiftsTeachers


http://www.squidoo.com/Being_Thankful_for_What_you_Have

Check them out and share them with others. Thanks~

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Yesterday was the Memorial for George S. Hayne 12/26/1935 to 8/5/2009. It was an emotional day and continues to be so for me today. Kinda like when your in crisis mode and you do what you need to do, then when it's all over you fall apart. Anyway I thought I'd post pictures from the memory boards I worked on.







































I had hoped to add photos to the previous post, but the cd I received didn't work so it will have to wait for another day.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Mission Trip Details and RIP

Well, I finally have a chance to write to you about the mission trip. The adventure of the mission trip began in the preparation. I found out five weeks before the trip that I along with another person was going to be in charge of the planning and prep for the women's events. That other person was going to be gone for two of those weeks, and had a daughter graduating during that time. Which meant the bulk of the prep work would be mine. During those 5 weeks, I had two weddings, a graduation party, 2 B-day parties, 2 Dr. appointments, a 2 day convention and took my MIL to the Dr. 5x's, four of those times in the two weeks prior to the trip. All this was in addition to managing the apartments and preparing and gathering things for the event and writing a devotional/presentation for the event. Whew, I can't believe I got it done, this must be why the first thing the Lord impressed me to do was to seek prayer.

During this time a few things happened that appeared to me to be the hand of God working. One of the first ones was a miss understanding on my part as to a deadline. Thinking I had to have information submitted for 2 booklets we were putting together I was up until the wee hours of the morning, putting it together. (That I could stay up so late and put things together was amazing in and of itself.) The next day after one of my Dr. appointments I called the church staff person who was helping with the project, to see if she had any questions only to find out that the deadline wasn't that day, but she was glad to have it. That information ended up being an outline for the talk I would give. Another thing that happened during the prep was in getting seeds we would be giving to the women. On one of the trips w/my MIL, we went to Walgreens and they had both flower and vegetable seeds on clearance for 16 cents a pack. My MIL paid for them so it didn't come out of the ministry budget, an added bonus. The week before the trip my MIL gave me an envelope with money, which covered the rest of Lisa's and my expenses for the trip.

The theme of our women's events was Tending the Garden of your Heart. We made booklets w/verses from the study and basic gardening information. We also gave each attendee two seed packets and a painted, china cross. In Mc Nary, AZ, we were on White Mountain Apache Reservation. There we had a dessert night on Tue. night, with 15 local women in attendance. We received a warm reception from them. An interesting thing happened there around 6:00, an hour before the event. While franticly getting ready a women came to us and said the pastors wife told her she could do a 5-10 min presentation on diabetes.
Trying to figure out where this would fit into the event we offered to let her go first. She didn't want to do that. I pondered for a moment, and remembered that in my talk I mentioned diabetes, so we let her go after I talked and the Lord gave me a perfect segway. As part of her presentation she gave canvas bags, earlier in the day Joanna, my partner, and I were discussing bags for them to carry all the stuff we had for them, (gifts that had been donated.) The Lord provided. The next day when talking to Randy, our liaison to the pastor, he shared with me that diabetes was one of their biggest problems next to alcoholism. It's neat to see how the Lord works all these things out and we just get to watch.

While in Mc Nary we also had a team putting two roofs on in 2 1/2 days. Prior to arriving the forecast was for rain the whole time we were to be there. It rained Sun. night so the ground was wet when we arrived. We were thankful to find out that we could sleep in some buildings instead of camping. Additionally the Lord held back the rain so that it didn't hinder the roofing. The youth put on a sports camp for younger children and saw their numbers double to over 30 participants on the second day. We left Mc Nary Wednesday evening and drove to Sun Valley Christian School to spend the night and take showers. Thursday morning we left for Gallup, New Mexico and stayed and at Wildcat Christian Academy. There our Youth did activities with their youth. Our construction team painted an apartment, put in playground equipment and various other odd jobs. We also set up a sound and projection system in the Sanctuary.

On Friday night I led a crochet class and it looked like I was going to have just two, and ended up with a total of eight, ladies, teens and girls. Lisa came to my rescue and was very helpful. On Saturday we put on a luncheon for the ladies, with the same materials we used at Mc Nary. We didn't have as many in attendance here, but we were able to minister to the families that run the school and church and a few of their members. Some of our youth and our cooks joined in for a pleasant event. Some from our group also did the Sunday morning service and we stayed for their Sunday evening service w/plans to leave for Sun Valley. However those plans were changed as one of our team members got sick so we stayed in NM our last night and left early Mon. morning for our trip home. We arrived back at the church at 7:00 p.m.

Upon arriving home David and I decided to do some grocery shopping so I wouldn't have to go the next day as I knew I would have apartment business to deal with. While bringing the groceries in around 8:30, my mom called me to tell me my step-dad, George, was in the hospital. He was taken to the ER on Fri for agitation, and given a drug that was on his allergic list while being admitted. By the time I got to the hospital on Tue. afternoon his kidneys were failing. Due to prior agreements between my mom and George dialysis was not an option. He had dementia with Lewy bodies and had been in a board and care home for a little over a year. On Wed Aug. 5th he passed away at 4:30 p.m. This was the same day our 17 yr. old house quest from Colorado arrived. She will be returning home on Aug. 15th. To my prayer partners, thank you for your faithfulness in prayer. Your prayers are what strengthened me on the mission trip and has enabled me to get through the current events.

As this will also end up being a blog post, if you feel led to pray for us, and my mom Cindy, as we deal with this loss it will be greatly appreciated. Besides the memorial, tentatively scheduled for the end of September, Christmas will be especially difficult. Our tradition has been his daughter and her family coming, from out of state, for Christmas and George's son and his family joining in the afternoon for a Christmas dinner of 19 or more. The day after we would celebrated George's birthday w/a movie and a dinner of leftovers and apple pie. Thank you again for all your prayer support. May God be praised and glorified through all.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Summer Begins

The end of June is almost here. I had hoped to get two posts up this month, so much for my best, laid plans. At the beginning of the month, we went camping with our homeschool group for our annual End of the Year camping trip. We went to San Clemente State Beach, enjoyed great weather, the beach, friends, food, games, campfires, etc.




B~ had her first experience with jury duty and did some volunteer work for a community theater. We went to two graduation parties and a birthday party. L~ took the CHSPE (Calif. HS Proficiency Exam), went to a wedding, and a medical screening all in the same day. Then left the next day for her first experience at Hume Lake, a camp our church attends yearly.



I rented one of my vacancies, one down, three to go. Now I'm preparing for a mission trip for July. L~ & I will leave on the 19th with a team from our church. We will be going to a Navajo & an Apache Reservation, working with churches in each location. I will be working and doing the Lions share of planning for two women's events. D~ was hoping to join us, but will be staying behind partly for work, and partly for his mother who is having health issues. We appreciate you prayers for the planning and execution to the mission trip and for the health issues of our parents.

Thursday, May 28, 2009


Can you believe it's the end of May? Only one more month and 2009 is 1/2 over. As the month ends, L~ has puffy checks, due to having all her wisdom teeth out. B~ is volunteering with St Joseph Ballet, again and she has a new job at Forever 21. We are coming to the end of our school year. We've already had the yearbook party, which I'm very involved in, being on the yearbook committee (The yearbook is pictured to the left). Friday night is open house and the end of the year campout is just around the corner. It has also been a month of bridal showers, two in one month. We have lots of apartments to rent, pray for good renters soon. It's been over two years since I've had 100% occupancy. I'm also learning how to use something called Aweber and have the results of it at the end of this entry.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy Mother's Day and Aweber



Had a productive yet relaxing Mother's day. One of the productive activities was working with aweber. The pop-up you see being the result.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Easter and More


Almost missed putting an entry in this month. Prior to Easter this year L~ and I had the opportunity to attend the Tabernacle Experience, if you have the opportunity, I highly recommend it. It's not an exact replica, but it made me realize what a privilege we have in prayer. Besides Easter, my favorite holiday, the biggest thing I did this month was sign up for a gym membership at 24Hour Fitness. Now the task is to find time to go. We also finally got to have our annual Bunco party with our homeschool group. It has become a tradition with our group, and is a great time for the moms and dads to get together. The white elephant gifts at the end are always a blast too. This year I think the Lipstick Bail Bond tee shirt and sweatshirt were the winners for funniest. Especially when a husband stole the shirt from someone else so he could match his wife.


We also had the pleasure of helping two couples at our church celebrate the rededicating of their vows. One couple celebrating 20 years and the other 30 years. There have been other things, but these are the highlights and the more positive things.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Feburary & March

Since I missed Feb., I'll start with that. We went to our 1st Super Bowl Party and enjoyed the exciting 4th qtr, even though the team we were rooting for lost. The following weekend I got to take a clay class from Marie Segal. We learned used a new to us clay and her technique for making flowers.
I think the small butterfly and the two small flowers in the lower lefthand corner are mine.

Lisa had an Irish Step Dance Competition a.k.a. as a Feis (pronounced Fesh). She placed 1st in her Special, and came home w/a big trophy.


I also got my Arbonne Consultant's card. Click Arbonne to learn about their great products, and on my ID# 18080419 to place an order from me.

In March Lisa had her last behind-the-wheel driving lesson and is doing well with this new skill. Bethany designed hair and make-up for her first show, Guys and Dolls.



Other annual events for March included the Youth Yard Sale at Church to put money in the student's account for camp and mission trips. Turning our schools yearbook into the printers, which I did eight days early, so well get 8 books for free. It was also David's birthday and we celebrated our 23rd wedding anniversary.


These are the flowers Dave got me, we also had a nice steak dinner and exchanged some small gifts.

Because I got our schools yearbooks to the printer early, I was able to go to a polymer clay-play-day, and made some eggs for a swap.



These are the eggs I made, later I'll post the ones I got in exchange during the swap.

Saturday, January 31, 2009

So I'm going to have to cram to get this month's posting done. Tagging off of last months post, What do you do with those gingerbread houses after Christmas? A few, very few, and not us, seal them up and save them for next year. Our family on the other hand eats the candy we want off it and sometimes DH eats some of the gingerbread. Once that's done, some time in the beginning of Jan. we to this to our houses.



We had more excitement than we wanted this month. It happened on a Fri. night, right in front of our apartment, about 5 -10 min after Lisa was brought back home. First came the sound of a car crashing, getting up to check it out, I then heard the very distinctive sounds of gunfire. Those of downstairs quickly ran upstairs to the farthest corner of the house. When we didn't hear anymore we cautiously looked out the girls bedroom window to see a car at the end of the cul-de-sac, a guy spread eagle face down on the ground and several police with their guns pointed at the vehicle. It was quite the ordeal and more adrenaline than I needed that late at night. They finally towed the car away about 5:00 in the morning, which I was up to see as Lisa wasn't feeling well and need some Mom attention. Here is a link to the article that was in the register.

We ended the month with Monster Truck Jam, which was very exciting for the young boy we took with us. My favorite was the Airforce Truck and the freestyle motor cross at the intermission. Here are some pictures.


Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year


Well it looks like I'm living up to the once a month post goal. Since our last post we've been busy getting ready for Christmas. One of our traditions is to decorate gingerbread houses. Usually we invite a guest to help us, this year we decorated with the Archer's another family who has the same tradition. It was a great time of exchange ideas, fellowship and lots of sugar. Lisa is the decorating queen as she did three houses in the time it took me to complete my one. The one to the left is the fist one Lisa did.

David made a porch on his to hide the fact that I put the door on upside down.
Bethany used Nerds (a candy the Archer's introduced us to) to make a vine one hers. The candy on her house started disappearing before David took the picture.





Bethany did the make-up for the Scrooge play at our church with Lisa as her assistant. The Lord has blessed me with three renters, that leaves three more vacancies to go.


These are some of the characters she's most proud of. The old men above and Christmas present and past below. They were all great, and the pictures don't do them justice, but I thought Christmas past was most interesting, especially in the dark with the lighting.



















Another blessing is homemade tamales twice, first from our friends and then from on of our tenants. We pray that you and yours will be abundantly blessed this Christmas and in the year to come. If your facing difficulties due to the economy we pray the Lords provision for you and that you'll focus on your many other blessings.

"for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength."
Philippians 4:10b-13

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Long over due

Well as you can see it’s been a while since I’ve made a post to my blog. My goal when starting the blog was once a week, which I accomplished in July and almost in Sept. In Oct. I was shooting for twice a month, now I’m hoping for once a month, so I need to hurry and get one in for this month. I’ve actually thought of post on several occasions, but the busyness of life has kept that from happening. So as I’m sitting here in Pahrump, visiting at my dad’s, I’ll use this opportunity to put in an update. Life is moving along at its usual break neck speed. I have one apartment vacant, hopefully I’ll have a renter come Mon. morn. Unfortunately I have three more vacancies coming up in Dec and a forth in Jan. Instead of dreaming of a white Christmas, I’m dreaming of 100% occupancy. Something I haven’t had in over a year and a half.

The election is now over, and no matter how you voted or what you think of the outcome, scripture has some instructions for us.

Titus 3:1-3 says “ Remind the people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready to do whatever is good, to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and to show true humility toward all men.


1 Peter 2:13-14, 17 tells us to Submit yourselves for the Lord's sake to every authority instituted among men: whether to the king, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. ….Show proper respect to everyone: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king.


Several years ago, the Lord convicted me that I wasn’t honoring the king, (in our case president), with my commentary or joke regarding him. At the time my children were young and the Lord was impressing on me the importance of my example. I’m sure I still fail at this, but I try to honor Gods authorities. Of late I’ve found this easier to do by not exposing myself to the news etc. Another interesting thing about this scripture reference is that God sometimes uses governors as a punishment.

So as we prepare for Christmas, which is less than a month away I hope we will all pray for the leaders God has placed over us.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Retreat and a movie


DH and I went to see Fireproof on Sunday evening. It was moving and I was in tears by the end. Kirk Cameron’s performance was wonderful, and they dealt with real issues. If your thinking about seeing its worth the money and I’d recommend doing it soon while it’s still in theaters. The movie and dinner with my husband at Rubios, was the end of a wonderful weekend. I went to a woman’s retreat at Murietta Hot Springs, using some of the birthday money my MIL gave me. It was a wonderful time of reconnecting with old acquaintances and friends and getting up early and spending time in prayer and God’s word. I also enjoyed time in the mineral hot springs with some current friends. One of the things I was reminded of, was the importance of praying before reading my Bible and throughout each day. Now I’m praying I’ll be able to apply all that was revealed to me. So far so good, but it’s only been two days.

Since my last post I’ve also finished another Squidoo lens about Operation Christmas Child. The time will sneak up quickly so you may want to start thinking about it now if you plan on doing a shoebox. Until my next post I hope all is well with you and yours.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Fireproof

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Today I begin a new decade. I’m no longer in my forties. Actually turning forty was emotionally more difficult for me. I think 50 will be more difficult for my mom; having to say her daughter is 50.

Someone sent me some info. about the movie Fireproof that comes out on Sept. 26th. Seems like it’s worth the expense. Dr. Ted Baehr. founder of Movieguide, said that we can influence our culture and the media, by how we vote. Every time we go to a movie in the theater we are casting a vote. Being frugal we seldom went to movies, choosing to wait until it came out on video. Now we go occasionally, so we’ll have a vote on things we’d like to see more of, coming out of the studios. I hope you’re able to cast a vote for traditional values by seeing this movie.

Friday, September 12, 2008

School in Full Swing and Perfectionism

Well, school is in full swing, and we had our first teacher's meeting for this school year on Tue. I gave the devotion, on something I’ve been pondering for some time now, perfectionism. Something my oldest said to me that made me think was that she thought I was hard on her and her sister, because I was hard on myself.

In preparing for this devotion/study, I ran across six blog entries by Dr. Del Tackett Dr. Del Tackett the teacher for Focus on the Families truth project. Summarizing them into a short devotion, was quite the challenge, and I probably went over a little. Here is a small portion from the blogs, emphasis added, with the links below to the entire thing. I encourage you to take the time to read them, you will be blessed.

“Often when we read the English word “perfect” or “perfection” we may have in mind something entirely different. We may think that “perfection” means “precisely exact” or “purely pure”, without flaw. If so, then I believe we will misunderstand what God is saying to us in the vast majority of these passages. Look at the Greek word “katartizo” translated “perfection” in 2 Corinthians 13:11 (“Aim for perfection”, NIV). Vine defines that word as “to render fit”. That means to “make functional”.

In the realm of salvation and our relationship with God, the standard is pure holiness. Many of the “perfect” passages deal with this. We can’t achieve that, so God did so and does so for us. That is the glory of the Gospel. In the realm of human actions, we are called to act righteously and not sin. But those righteous actions do not carry a standard of “precise exactness”. If I am supposed to be kind to my neighbor, what “precisely” and “exactly” does that mean? Do I begin my conversation with “Good morning, Miss Quigley”, “Hello, Miss Quigley” or “Hi! What’s up?” Scripture doesn’t burden us with “precise exactness” in these things. So, in the social realm, I have Scriptural guidance to be “perfect” in kindness, gentleness, love, respect, etc., but without slavery to some sense of “this is exactly how you should do this or you will be imperfect”.”

10/24/207 First entry
11/19/207 Second entry
11/20/207 Third entry
11/30/207 Fourth entry
12/3/207 Fifth entry
12/5/207 Sixth entry

I ended the summary with some thoughts of my own;

So my encouragement to us in all our areas of life is to seek the Lord, like Mary, and ask him to show use what Martha burdens or burdens of precise exactness WE have incorporated into our lives and to seek His help to let them go. May we all spend time focusing on our relationships with the Lord and others than the stuff in this world that so easily distracts us.

I want to leave you with one last verse that may also be the cause of some of the burdens we place on ourselves, from Proverbs 39:25 NIV
Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is kept safe.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Here are a few pictures from our trip.

This is where we had the privilege of staying for a week.





Chocolate chip cookies being made while we play games.



Our host's property, and what we took our walks through in the mornings



Photos from Cave of the Winds.





These shots are from the Mining Museum.





The pictures below are from the Molly Kathleen Mine .







The pictures below are from Dragonmans.. If you know David you'll know why he enjoyed this place.







Here are the girls on our friends porch.





This is Glen Eyrie where we had high tea.